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- Feb 6, 2015
A Not So Brief Lesbian Marriage
We tried so many times to get legal in our 31-year relationship. We called it a marriage way before marriage equality was a reality for lesbians and gay men. Way before our "real"/ legal marriage, we believed and deeply felt, only death would part us. Like many (most?) couples, we played with our familiar mantra: "Promise I get to die first,"
"No, I go first!" (My separation anxiety is more extreme.)
"Ok... but I get to die five minutes later," she graciously agreed.
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